Lindsie Chrisley with her new boyfriend Trent.Photo:Lindsie Chrisley/instagram

Lindsie Chrisley posts lengthy birthday post on her 34th birthday

Lindsie Chrisley/instagram

FormerChrisley Knows BeststarLindsie Chrisleylooked back on a “year of many life lessons” on Monday as she shared a carousel of photos onInstagramfrom her recent 34th birthday celebration with new boyfriend Trent.

“When you take responsibility for the choices you make and the path that you walk, you can fine tune your approach until you do see the results you want. + These were the ones I was looking for,” Lindsie, who hosts the podcastSouthern Tea, began in the lengthy post.⁣"Thank you to all of you for the birthday wishes, thirty-three was a year of many life lessons," she continued. “It was like a party. Inviting a lot of people. Some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, some show up late. But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help clean up the mess. These are the ones I’ve kept around and I am forever grateful for them.”

Lindsie, who also co-hosts the podcastCoffee ConvoswithTeen Mom 2alumKailyn Lowry, then shared several “quotes that I’ve carried with me throughout the last year.”

“What we leave untouched or unhealed from the past, we unknowingly invite to rewrite its story in the pages of our present,” read one quote. “Nothing in life has happened to you. It’s happened for you. Every disappointment. Every wrong. Even every closed door has helped make you into who you are,” read the second.

Lindsie, who is mother to sonJackson, 11, with her ex-husbandWill Campbell, continued in her message, “I asked God to help me grow and he taught me how to forgive, to love my enemies, to serve humbly, to pray fervently, to work wholeheartedly, and to bless others generously.” ⁣

Lindsie Chrisley (left) with her stepmother Julie Chrisley (center) and half-sister Savanah (right).Tommy Garcia/getty

Lindsie Chrisley Campbell, Julie Chrisley, Savannah Chrisley

Noticeably absent from Lindsie’s birthday post was any mention of her family, with whom she has long had a fraught relationship. The post also included no mention ofNic Kerdiles' deathearly Saturday morning in a motorcycle accident. Kerdiles was engaged to Lindsie’s sisterSavannah ChrisleyfromApril 2019 to September 2020.

Lindsie, who first appeared onChrisley Knows Bestalongside her blended family when it debuted in 2014 on the USA Network, left the series in 2017, later entering into a public feudamid their estrangement.

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During a Sept. 21 episode ofCoffee Convos, Lindsie addressed what led to herno longer being on speaking termswith her younger sister Savannah, 26, explaining that she blocked siblings to shield them from her social media content after they asked her to delete a mocking post about a Chrisley family bingo card.

“I understand emotions are high and everybody doesn’t deal with things the same way,” Lindsie said at the time. “It wasn’t meant to be rude. It wasn’t meant to be mean. It was, I’m going to address this because it’s all over the Internet so I will remove it, but also remove yourself.”

Lindsie said she is leaving the door open for a possible reconciliation, adding that Savannah “also knows how to get a hold of me if she wants to work this out privately, which it seems she does not.”

Lindsie Chrislie (far right) with her family in 2016.Jeffrey Mayer/WireImage

Savannah Chrisley, producer/TV personality and TV personalities Julie Chrisley, Chase Chrisley and Lindsie Chrisley arrive at the 2016 Summer TCA Tour - NBCUniversal Press Tour at the Four Seasons Hotel - Westlake Village on April 1, 2016

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Todd shares Lindsieand her older brotherKyle Chrisleywith his first wife, Teresa Terry, whom he divorced in 1996,

Todd, 54, and Julie, 50, wereindictedin August 2019 for12 counts of bank and wire fraud, tax evasion, and conspiracy. Theydeniedthe allegations.

According to the Federal Bureau of Prisons' online inmate search system,Todd has had his sentence reducedand will now leave the Federal Prison Camp Pensacola on Jan. 22, 2033, nearly two years before his 12-year sentence was previously expected to end.

source: people.com